Hold My Hand...
...Here is a short story with a beautiful message
Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge...
The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter...
Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river....
The little girl said,
No, Dad. You hold my hand...
What's the difference?
Asked the puzzled father...
There's a big difference,
replied the little girl....If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go.
...But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go.
......In any relationship,
......the essence of trust is not in its bind,
......but in its bond.
...So hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours...

我粗糙的把它翻译成中文，文章内容如下：
让我拉你的手
这里有一个让人感动的小故事：
  一个小女孩和她的爸爸一起过一个独木桥，和蔼慈善的父亲对小女孩说：“宝贝，拉着我的手，这样你就不会掉进河里了。”
小女孩却说：“不，爸爸！你拉着我的手！”
“这有什么不一样吗？”，父亲疑惑的问。
“这很不一样”，小女孩回答说，“如果我拉你的手，我发生什么什么意外，我可以松开你的手，不拖累你”，但是，如果你拉着我的手，我很清楚的知道无论发生什么事情你都不会松开我的手的。”
在任何人际关系中…
双方的信任关系，实质上不是绑在一起的，而是一种更深层次的结合。
所以，和你心爱的人在一起时，要主动握住他（她）的手，而不是等待他（她）来拉你的手。